Things I wish my parents could understand

In the endeavor of spiritual awareness,

I had this perfect idea of writing thoughts of my experiences about my childhood faith made me think which appeals to me at my level because of the pain and suffering that I have been through until my 30th year.

As a seeker and writer for life, I find it possible to get my attention to what I am trying to accomplish.

I thank my husband with all due respect and support in gaining self-awareness for what I am seeking about what is called life. 

It is the perfect moment that I can share my instincts and reveal the inner strength of mine when I am in the USA.

The expression of gratitude which scattered me to change everything that situation arises for various reasons.

I am a wife and Indian women with the exception that self-imposed,

I am frustrated when I go to India with an unloveable dad and controlling mother in law.

I learned that people doesn’t care what you want to tell but are willing to hear what they want to hear.

“No medicine treats a negative mind. No poison spoils a positive”.

 Someone quoted this is true.

They have someone who supports which is, strength mostly during hard times. So, I wish I could have a shoulder.

So here is my dad.

He was not getting what I tell him I needed so he could understand what I meant.

I am like a boy 

 "The Peanuts ."

I am like a "Kung fu panda."

I got disheartening about what I wish to become,

I got emotional. My parents, maybe their parenting skills poor, scold what I do since childhood.

I wish they would have known parenting skills that are vital for self -growth, and esteem of the children.

Every child is different. Push the child hard on your self.

 What a child says to you is taken as offensive?

As they forget after they grew up.

 Do the future parents take what they do as personal?

Kids may act, scream to a lack of attention.

Try to look at what direction or motivation you are providing during their screaming.

Always saying no to what they want and bad-mouthing in front of them makes them lower self-confidence and not build up relationship skill, it will impact on their future relationships and future generations and in every aspect of life.

Let them explore and learn from being independent as a child.

However, discipline but nagging, yelling affects their brain.

Treat them the way you want to treated why scolding?

Treat them as your friend.

Nobody is perfect!

Show them respect and ask and help them what they want to become?

Hug them often.

It will improve positive vibes in them!

Let them develop their personality.

Earlier, the behavior was seen and learned from parents.

But remember the kids have their way of thinking.

Try to give opportunities for them to apply their thinking to practice.

Forgive about mistakes.

It is a way being independent occurs at an early stage child adapt experience without any practice they cannot achieve their success.

Copyright Jeevani